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How to accept change and learn to love the new facebook

March 24, 2009

Change is good. Our President promotes it. The coke machine still takes it and it’s what makes the world go ‘round.

Adapting to change is one of the most sought after skills today and something no one likes to do. However, everyday things change. Most recently, Facebook, the world’s most popular social networking site came under fire for its newest face-lift. Before that, it was the Pepsi Co.

 

So. How does one go against nature and accept change?

Throw a light on it like the monster in the closet. How do you do that?

Define it. Here we come Wikipedia:  Change 

Ok. It’s defined. Now, what is it?

 

Well it’s different for everyone. According to Dr. James J Messina, on the Live Strong website ( Yes, that live strong) it involves a loss, a break or an altercation to ones lifestyle that challenges, requires or motivates one to reshape, redefine or revalue a relationship, lifestyle or reaction.

 

By now you are either grumbling, “changes sucks, stay the course!” which would suggest one head back over to Wikipedia and search caveman

 

Those still here, its time to examine why. Because lets be honest, changes sucks. It’s scary, exhilarating, confusing, and causes sudden outburst of anger anxiety, avoidance, dread, disappointment and strange excitement.

 

Why in Jesus’ name would anyone chose to jump off the cliff? Change is not easy stuff. People write books and articles about how hard it is. Books, whole books! That just shows how hard it is, so avoid it, right.

WRONG! Unless of course you think, the only good changes were the wheel and fire. Because there are far more benefits than irrational fears for accepting change.

 

The first being growth. Who doesn’t want to be the smartest, know it all, done it first in their group? Not only do you get the distinction of being smart, adventurous, and wise but you also have stronger relationships, personal, social and emotional.  

 

Second, you will have more order and purpose to your life. You’ll have found resources and strengths that you didn’t know were there. Lastly, you will find more energy for desirable activities once you stop plotting against change.

 

But before you go jumping off the cliff of change, lets start small. How about you unjoin the “I hate the new Facebook group” and start to accept the new Facebook and here is how.

 

 

 

Step1: Face book has changed

           

            -Accept it.

Push aside all the emotion about your past relationship and see this change as a chance to move forward the relationship.  The new Facebook is all about you! Remember that, it’s the super significant other. It does all the work, so you don’t have to.

 

That friends, is a positive change.

 

Step 2: Explore the change   

 

The Facebook team has a blog, in the blog they share all the important info pertaining to Facebook.

 

Imagine that.

 

Now part of your accepting and moving on is to read about the redesign. Learn how it was designed for you and your needs. Learn how to use it, and love it.

 

Step 3: Six months later

 

Do you truly see that there has been any major life altering change to your everyday because of this?

 

Now, try this with something that really matters.

 

 

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